I had an interesting evening last night. I am working on a story for a local newspaper about groups that meet to speak Yiddish, and last night was my chance to actually attend a group meeting. What I found there blew me away.
About 50 people attended the meeting, far more than I would have expected, and the people I met overwhelmed me with their generosity and enthusiasm. Most of the attendees were long past 50 years, but their spirit and love for the Yiddish language kept them young. This evening differed from the typical format of these monthly meetings because the group was honoring a recently-deceased member.
This member was so dearly loved that the group re-named itself in his honor. To commemorate the occasion, the group moderator gave the widow and her family a large photograph of him rolling out matzo dough for passover. There is love and tenderness in his face as he works...and a tatoo on his arm from his days in a Auschwitz.
Many of these Yiddish speakers were first generation immigrants who came to American from Europe after "The War" - their way of referring to World War II. They might not have died in Europe, but they gave up their careers, homes, identities, and almost certainly lost family members to flee some of the most horrific regimes in the history of mankind. And last night they gathered to remember home, the lands from which they come and to which they will never return.
As a member of white, middle-class America who has never known real hardship I was humbled by these people. Here before me was living history, and the fact that they were remembering one who had died reminded me that they are not long with us. As I was visiting with a woman last night, she thanked me for taking an interest in their group. "The young people these days," she said, "they don't want to be around us." "I know, " I told her, "and it's our loss. We're only hurting ourselves."
Perhaps these people resonated with me because of my Eastern European heritage. Perhaps I am drawn to the fact that their stories make great stories. But I think it's more than that. I want to celebrate these people while they are still around. They deserve it. And then I can commend their works to the next generation, too.